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I would definitely not continue to put the effort into the friendship. While friendships aren’t tat-for-tat, both sides need to put work into it to maintain it. I’d say to stop talking to her and...
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I wouldn’t continue it. I have a friend like this. She’d always say, “Oh we have to go out soon!” So I would plan to go to dinner, movie, or whatever, and she cancel or just never get back to me....
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History has a way of blinding us to someone’s worst traits; we cling to friendships because we miss who our friends once were, or because our memories of who they were are fogged. I never thought that...
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darkbluetennessee: Of all the people I was friends with in grade 8, I’m still real friends with 2 of them. People change as they grow up and become different, and you might not longer have anything...
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You don’t have to have no contact with her but I’d certainly stop making plans and putting in any effort. And when she asks why (if she ever does) you can reiterate to her that you don’t have the time...
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Honestly, I would not continue that friendship. It sounds VERY one sided. If she isnt willing to put in the work to maintain the friendsship, a few years of history isnt a good enough reason to hold...
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I have this friend and we’ll call her “B”. She and I are long time friends, back in high school beginning of grade 8. She’s always complaining that we never spend time together, so I’ve put in 100% of...
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